Sunday, June 24, 2012

Psalm 119 Pt VII: I love thy law, it is my meditation all the day

From Psalms


Psalm 119: 97-112

Mem
97O how love I thy law!
      it is my meditation all the day.
98Thou through thy commandments hast made me wiser than mine enemies:
      for they are ever with me.
99I have more understanding than all my teachers:
      for thy testimonies are my meditation.
100I understand more than the ancients,
      because I keep thy precepts.
101I have refrained my feet from every evil way,
      that I might keep thy word.
102I have not departed from thy judgments:
      for thou hast taught me.
103How sweet are thy words unto my taste!
      yea, sweeter than honey to my mouth!
104 Through thy precepts I get understanding:
      therefore I hate every false way.

Nun
105Thy word is a lamp unto my feet,
      and a light unto my path.
106I have sworn, and I will perform it,
      that I will keep thy righteous judgments.
107I am afflicted very much: quicken me,
      O Lord, according unto thy word.
108Accept, I beseech thee, the freewill offerings of my mouth,
      O Lord, and teach me thy judgments.
109My soul is continually in my hand:
      yet do I not forget thy law.
110The wicked have laid a snare for me:
      yet I erred not from thy precepts.
111Thy testimonies have I taken as an heritage for ever:
      for they are the rejoicing of my heart.
112I have inclined mine heart to perform thy statutes alway,
      even unto the end.

My best days start with meditation on psalms...these meditations stay with me the rest of the day.  These days, and weeks, if I can string enough of those days together, allow me to live like the psalmist in these verses.  Where God's word is a lamp unto my feet guiding me in my choices and spirit.  Where my feet (and my fingers on the keyboard) refrain from all evils.  Where I get understanding from God's precepts.  Where my soul is continually in my hand.  Where His testimonies are the rejoicing of my heart.

Between those days there are others where I stray from his word.  Where I consider revisiting my addictions.  Where I forget that God has his hand on me.  Thankfully though those are only passing - and fewer and fewer as time passes in His word.  Thankfully in the end I return to His word, His psalms, and His direction.  I am continually reminded of the beauty and joy that I have in the life the God has planned and destined for me.  I am eternally grateful for God's grace and forgiveness.
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Tuesday, June 19, 2012

Psalm 119 pt VI: My soul fainteth for thy salvation

From Psalms

Psalm 119: 81-96

(Kaph)
81My soul fainteth for thy salvation:
      but I hope in thy word.
82Mine eyes fail for thy word, saying,
      When wilt thou comfort me?
83For I am become like a bottle in the smoke;
      yet do I not forget thy statutes.
84How many are the days of thy servant?
      when wilt thou execute judgment on them that persecute me?
85The proud have digged pits for me,
      which are not after thy law.
86All thy commandments are faithful:
      they persecute me wrongfully; help thou me.
87They had almost consumed me upon earth;
      but I forsook not thy precepts.
88Quicken me after thy lovingkindness;
      so shall I keep the testimony of thy mouth.

(Lamedh)
89For ever, O Lord,
      thy word is settled in heaven.
90Thy faithfulness is unto all generations:
      thou hast established the earth, and it abideth.
91They continue this day according to thine ordinances:
      for all are thy servants.
92Unless thy law had been my delights,
      I should then have perished in mine affliction.
93I will never forget thy precepts:
      for with them thou hast quickened me.
94I am thine, save me:
      for I have sought thy precepts.
95The wicked have waited for me to destroy me:
      but I will consider thy testimonies.
96I have seen an end of all perfection:
      but thy commandment is exceeding broad.

My soul is weary and needs some propping up from time to time.  I guess that's normal since we all deal with the struggles and conflicts of life.  Sometimes, though, I get the thought that the propping up can come from a drink of wine, some porn, or even a cup of coffee.  Of course, I know that relief is only momentary.  The same way the energy from a candy bar only lasts for a few minutes and leaves you more drained when its gone.

Of course, I know that true strength and endurance comes from something deeper than that.  I am grateful for the psalms for they remind me that although I have my struggles and conflict that God can give me that strength, and His word can give me that hope.

Thank you God for the strength and hope that you provide everyday.  Continue to guide me on my journey.  Quicken me after thy lovingkindness so shall I keep the testimony of thy mouth.  Unless thy law had been my delights, I should have perished in mine affliction.  I am thine, save me...continue to save me.  Amen.

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Saturday, June 16, 2012

Psalm 119 pt V: It is good for me that I have been afflicted

From Psalms


Psalm 119 v:65-80

(Teth)
65Thou hast dealt well with thy servant,
      O Lord, according unto thy word.
66Teach me good judgment and knowledge:
      for I have believed thy commandments.
67Before I was afflicted I went astray:
      but now have I kept thy word.
68Thou art good, and doest good;
      teach me thy statutes.
69The proud have forged a lie against me:
      but I will keep thy precepts with my whole heart.
70Their heart is as fat as grease;
      but I delight in thy law.
71It is good for me that I have been afflicted;
      that I might learn thy statutes.
72The law of thy mouth is better unto me than thousands of gold and silver.

(Yodh)
73Thy hands have made me and fashioned me:
      give me understanding, that I may learn thy commandments.
74They that fear thee will be glad when they see me;
      because I have hoped in thy word.
75I know, O Lord, that thy judgments are right,
      and that thou in faithfulness hast afflicted me.
76Let, I pray thee, thy merciful kindness be for my comfort,
      according to thy word unto thy servant.
77Let thy tender mercies come unto me,
      that I may live: for thy law is my delight.
78Let the proud be ashamed; for they dealt perversely with me without a cause:
      but I will meditate in thy precepts.
79Let those that fear thee turn unto me,
      and those that have known thy testimonies.
80Let my heart be sound in thy statutes;
      that I be not ashamed.

One concept that I struggle with is that "It is good for me that I have been afflicted," from verse 71.  It has been good for me to have my sex addiction and alcoholism.  I understand that without them I would not have learned a true faith in God - or learned his statutes.  I've had to hand over probably the biggest struggles in my life.  Obviously that doesn't mean you have to be an addict to have fatih in God, but I've heard people attribute more things to the hand of God in a 12 step meeting than maybe anywhere else.  Nevertheless, to think that the pain the addictions has brought to me and those around me are somehow good.  That's where I struggle.

I guess it's easier for me to hear this concept in Laura Story's Blessings.  Somehow it makes sense when she sings it in this context.  This reminds me of another phrase I've heard while training for triathlons.  That is, "Pain is merely weakness leaving you body."  This, in a weird way, give me hope - for the process of pain and suffering is making me stronger and better equipped for what life has for me.  I guess its a lot like the cliche, "That which does not kill me only makes me stronger."  Nevertheless, its a common theme in psalm 119 that I pray that God may quicken me with his word.

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Wednesday, June 13, 2012

Psalm 119 pt IV: The earth, O Lord, full of thy mercy

From Psalms

Psalms 119:49-64

(Zayin)
49Remember the word unto thy servant,
      upon which thou hast caused me to hope.
50This is my comfort in my affliction:
      for thy word hath quickened me.
51The proud have had me greatly in derision:
      yet have I not declined from thy law.
52I remembered thy judgments of old, O Lord;
      and have comforted myself.
53Horror hath taken hold upon me because of the wicked
      that forsake thy law.
54Thy statutes have been my songs
      in the house of my pilgrimage.
55I have remembered thy name, O Lord,
      in the night, and have kept thy law.
56This I had,
      because I kept thy precepts.


(Heth)
57Thou art my portion, O Lord:
      I have said that I would keep thy words.
58I intreated thy favour with my whole heart:
      be merciful unto me according to thy word.
59I thought on my ways,
      and turned my feet unto thy testimonies.
60I made haste, and delayed not
      to keep thy commandments.
61The bands of the wicked have robbed me:
      but I have not forgotten thy law.
62At midnight I will rise to give thanks unto thee
      because of thy righteous judgments.
63I am a companion of all them that fear thee,
      and of them that keep thy precepts.
64The earth, O Lord, is full of thy mercy:
      teach me thy statutes.

Of anything, hope, is the thing that makes the greatest changes.  Hope, like faith, allows us to believe in things that we have yet to accomplish.  If love is the water that allows a seed to grow then hope is the sunshine.  Hope is seeing a sobriety birthday cake at a meeting.  Hope is seeing your son learn about the dangers of addiction earlier rather than later.  Hope is the prayers in psalms.  Hope is seeing God's love in a neighbor.

Hope is around us, much in the same way God's mercy fills the earth.  Sometimes its a glimmer.  Sometimes its as overwhelming brilliant as the sunshine.  The trick for me, no matter how brilliant, is when I catch it to let it inspire me to make the most of it.  To reflect to others.  To guide me in sobriety and in the way of truth.  To teach others in God's way.

God, keep your words and your law with me.  For your word give me hope (v. 49).  This hope sustains me.  Be merciful unto me.  For your mercy gives me hope.  This hope gives me strength and inspiration.  Let this inspiration be a light for others to see.  A light that may lead them out of the darkness of addiction.  Just as I was lead out of the darkness.  Give them this hope, and faith, that there is a way out.  Hope that if they take some steps (12?) in the right direction they will find this light.  Hope that in this light they will find a new life, a life free of addiction, free of lies, and full of hope.  Amen.

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Saturday, June 9, 2012

Psalm 119 pt III: Incline my heart unto your testimonies

From Psalms
Psalm 119: 33-48

(He)
33Teach me, O Lord, the way of thy statutes;
      and I shall keep it unto the end.
34Give me understanding, and I shall keep thy law;
      yea, I shall observe it with my whole heart.
35Make me to go in the path of thy commandments;
      for therein do I delight.
36Incline my heart unto thy testimonies,
      and not to covetousness.
37Turn away mine eyes from beholding vanity;
      and quicken thou me in thy way.
38Stablish thy word unto thy servant,
      who is devoted to thy fear.
39Turn away my reproach which I fear:
      for thy judgments are good.
40Behold, I have longed after thy precepts:
      quicken me in thy righteousness.


(Waw)
41Let thy mercies come also unto me,
      O Lord, even thy salvation, according to thy word.
42So shall I have wherewith to answer him that reproacheth me:
      for I trust in thy word.
43And take not the word of truth utterly out of my mouth;
      for I have hoped in thy judgments.
44So shall I keep thy law continually
      for ever and ever.
45And I will walk at liberty:
      for I seek thy precepts.
46I will speak of thy testimonies also before kings,
      and will not be ashamed.
47And I will delight myself in thy commandments,
      which I have loved.
48My hands also will I lift up unto thy commandments,
      which I have loved; and I will meditate in thy statutes.

 Oh Lord teach me in you ways (v 33), Give me understanding (v 34), Guide me in your path (v 35), Incline my heart unto my your testimonies and not to covetousness (v 36).  This a great part of psalm 119 because these things are all I ask for.  These are everything I need to overcome my addictions, which still lurk in my life.  These are no small requests though...these things are about making a change in the way I think, feel and act.

Nevertheless, I trust that God can teach me and give me understanding to handle and manage those temptations.  I've seen Him do it in the past.  I know that if I am committed to learning his word, then He will teach me in the ways of his statutes so that I can keep them to the end.  I have faith that He can quicken me and incline my heart to his testimonies rather than allowing me to turn to covetousness or beholding vanity.

I believe that I have seen the first part of these changes in my life.  I must stay committed to complete this journey.  It is not easy and there are many temptations and distractions that pull me away.  It would be easier if I knew where the end would be or if there was an end to this change at all.  I understand how alcoholics, and addicts in general, can fall off the wagon before is complete.  It is a long road to recovery.  So I must keep praying and keep focused.  I must keep my faith that God will continue to teach me, guide me, and protect me throughout this journey.

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Friday, June 8, 2012

Psalm 119, pt II: Strengthen me according to Your word

From Psalms
Psalm 119, verses 17-32 

(Gimel)
17Deal bountifully with thy servant,
      that I may live, and keep thy word.
18Open thou mine eyes, that I may behold
      wondrous things out of thy law.
19I am a stranger in the earth:
      hide not thy commandments from me.
20My soul breaketh for the longing
      that it hath unto thy judgments at all times.
21Thou hast rebuked the proud that are cursed,
      which do err from thy commandments.
22Remove from me reproach and contempt;
      for I have kept thy testimonies.
23Princes also did sit and speak against me:
      but thy servant did meditate in thy statutes.
24Thy testimonies also are my delight
      and my counselors.

(Daleth)
25My soul cleaveth unto the dust:
      quicken thou me according to thy word.
26I have declared my ways, and thou heardest me:
      teach me thy statutes.
27Make me to understand the way of thy precepts:
      so shall I talk of thy wondrous works.
28My soul melteth for heaviness:
      strengthen thou me according unto thy word.
29Remove from me the way of lying:
      and grant me thy law graciously.
30I have chosen the way of truth:
      thy judgments have I laid before me.
31I have stuck unto thy testimonies:
      O Lord, put me not to shame.
32I will run the way of thy commandments,
      when thou shalt enlarge my heart.

Strengthen me according to Your word, Oh Lord.  Remove from me the way of lying.  I really appreciate this term, "they way of lying."  It's not just remove the lies from from my life - but the way of lying from me.  That includes the cheating, the lying, the deception, the hiding and covering up, the stealing - all the ways of lying.  Because if I can have god remove from me the way of lying then I can be truer to myself and to the person God intends for me to be.

I am choosing the way of truth.  And truly I need to be strengthened to have the courage to live truthfully.  Sometimes it is so much easier to hide from the tough decisions and the truth.  God's word and judgments I have laid before me.

As I read this part of Psalm 119 I get the sense that the psalmist is crying out to God.  Possibly because, as I read it, I feel like I am crying out to God for this support.  Why is it I still struggle with "the way of lying."  That I feel I must hide and cover-up, deceive and steal.  What is it I am afraid of?  I guess it varies from situation to situation but I still have fear in my life.  Fear of authority, fear of failure, and fear of rejection.  There is nothing logical about any of this fear but I still have it.  And so it is I turn to God, again, and ask for Him to quicken me and strengthen me to overcome these fears so that I can live the way of truth.

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Wednesday, June 6, 2012

Psalm 119, pt I: Thy word have I hid in mine heart, that I might not sin against thee

From Psalms


Psalm 119
(Aleph)
1Blessed are the undefiled in the way,
      who walk in the law of the Lord.
2Blessed are they that keep his testimonies,
      and that seek him with the whole heart.
3They also do no iniquity:
      they walk in his ways.
4Thou hast commanded us
      to keep thy precepts diligently.
5O that my ways were directed
      to keep thy statutes!
6Then shall I not be ashamed,
      when I have respect unto all thy commandments.
7I will praise thee with uprightness of heart,
      when I shall have learned thy righteous judgments.
8I will keep thy statutes:
      O forsake me not utterly.

(Beth)
9Wherewithal shall a young man cleanse his way?
      by taking heed thereto according to thy word.
10With my whole heart have I sought thee:
      O let me not wander from thy commandments.
11Thy word have I hid in mine heart,
      that I might not sin against thee.
12Blessed art thou, O Lord:
      teach me thy statutes.
13With my lips have I declared
      all the judgments of thy mouth.
14I have rejoiced in the way of thy testimonies,
      as much as in all riches.
15I will meditate in thy precepts,
      and have respect unto thy ways.
16I will delight myself in thy statutes:
      I will not forget thy word.

I have finally made it to Psalm 119. The mother of all psalms.  With 176 verses it will be a journey within a journey.  Not only is it the longest psalm, it's also the longest chapter in the entire bible.  It's enough to make me procrastinate just thinking about.  I have yet to even scan all of my writings on it.  However, it's uniqueness is not just in its length.  Or the fact that it's 22 sections start with the sequential letters of the Hebrew alphabet.  The uniqueness is that each of its lament, praise, vindication, and deliverance requests are grounded in God's word, the Bible (or in the case of the Old Testament, The Torah) itself.  It's a prayer of
and for somebody who delights in and lives by the sacred law of the Bible/Torah.

So, I guess it should be no surprise that such a large part of my recovery was supported by my work in Psalms.  I can truly understand relate to psalmist in these first two sections.  I have kept God's word hidden in my heart, that I might not sin against Him.  I have rejoiced in the way of God's sacred word and testimonies as much as in all riches.  I see that the Psalms have brought more to my life than any material riches.  So, I meditate on the precepts and respect unto God's ways.  It delightful for me to read and I will always remember God's word.

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Monday, June 4, 2012

Psalm 118 (KJV):The Lord is my strength and song, and has become my salvation

From Psalms

Psalm 118

1O give thanks unto the LORD; for he is good:
      because his mercy endureth for ever.

2Let Israel now say,
      that his mercy endureth for ever.
3Let the house of Aaron now say,
      that his mercy endureth for ever.
4Let them now that fear the LORD say,
      that his mercy endureth for ever.

5I called upon the LORD in distress:
      the LORD answered me, and set me in a large place.
6The LORD is on my side; I will not fear:
      what can man do unto me?
7The LORD taketh my part with them that help me:
      therefore shall I see my desire upon them that hate me.

8It is better to trust in the LORD
      than to put confidence in man.
9It is better to trust in the LORD
      than to put confidence in princes.

10All nations compassed me about:
      but in the name of the LORD will I destroy them.
11They compassed me about;
      yea, they compassed me about:
      but in the name of the LORD I will destroy them.
12They compassed me about like bees:
      they are quenched as the fire of thorns:
      for in the name of the LORD I will destroy them.

13Thou hast thrust sore at me that I might fall:
      but the LORD helped me.
14The LORD is my strength and song,
      and is become my salvation.

15The voice of rejoicing and salvation
      is in the tabernacles of the righteous:
      the right hand of the LORD doeth valiantly.
16The right hand of the LORD is exalted:
      the right hand of the LORD doeth valiantly.

17I shall not die, but live,
      and declare the works of the LORD.
18The LORD hath chastened me sore:
      but he hath not given me over unto death.

19Open to me the gates of righteousness:
      I will go into them, and I will praise the LORD:
20This gate of the LORD,
      into which the righteous shall enter.
21I will praise thee: for thou hast heard me,
      and art become my salvation.

22The stone which the builders refused
      is become the head stone of the corner.
23This is the LORD's doing;
      it is marvellous in our eyes.
24This is the day which the LORD hath made;
      we will rejoice and be glad in it.

25Save now, I beseech thee, O LORD:
      O LORD, I beseech thee, send now prosperity.
26Blessed be he that cometh in the name of the LORD:
      we have blessed you out of the house of the LORD.
27God is the LORD,
      which hath shewed us light:
bind the sacrifice with cords,
      even unto the horns of the altar.

28Thou art my God, and I will praise thee:
      thou art my God, I will exalt thee.

29O give thanks unto the LORD; for he is good:
      for his mercy endureth for ever.

Some mornings are harder than others.  On those mornings its important to remember that God has his hand on me.  Because I find when I start the day off right, meaning with a good prayer, things seem to fall into place and the distractions which usually lead me to my addictions seem to fall away.  I have to agree with Dietrich Bonhoeffer who said that psalms are best read on your knees in prayer.  In fact, I think he said that's the only way to read them.  However, when I read the psalm 118 though I'm reminded that it can actually be sung (I think this actually from psalm 107 - but the opening line is the same as verse 1).

My point is connecting with God early in the day is very important because it sets the tone for the rest of the day.  It reminds me to be His light.  It reminds me of my covenant with Him and His blessings and gifts for me.  It reminds me no matter how hard, or how confusing, my struggles get I can always call on Him.  That he has saved me when I have called on Him in the past.  That I, like all of us, am one of His children and He will continue to guide me.

In my prayers I pray for not only me, but for anyone who needs His guidance and support.  That we may find Him in the people in our lives, to teach us His way, and to set us free.

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Sunday, June 3, 2012

Psalm 117 (KJV): His merciful kindness is great toward us

From Psalms

Psalm 117

1O praise the LORD, all ye nations:
      praise him, all ye people.
2For his merciful kindness is great toward us:
      and the truth of the LORD endureth for ever.

Praise ye the LORD.

Today, I am not going to dwell in the shortest psalm of the Bible.  In fact, I'm going to try to keep this as short and simple as possible.  For today I am very grateful that today's psalm is only two verses long.  Praise the Lord for his merciful kindness is great and the truth of his word will endure forever.  Amen.
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Saturday, June 2, 2012

Psalm 116 (KJV): I am thy servant, thou hast loosed my bonds

From Psalms

Psalm 116

1I love the LORD, because he hath heard
      my voice and my supplications.
2Because he hath inclined his ear unto me,
      therefore will I call upon him as long as I live.

3The sorrows of death compassed me,
      and the pains of hell gat hold upon me:
      I found trouble and sorrow.
4Then called I upon the name of the LORD;
      O LORD, I beseech thee, deliver my soul.

5Gracious is the LORD, and righteous;
      yea, our God is merciful.
6The LORD preserveth the simple:
      I was brought low, and he helped me.

7Return unto thy rest, O my soul;
      for the LORD hath dealt bountifully with thee.

8For thou hast delivered my soul from death,
      mine eyes from tears,
      and my feet from falling.
9I will walk before the LORD
      in the land of the living.
10I believed, therefore have I spoken:
      I was greatly afflicted:
11I said in my haste,
      All men are liars.

12What shall I render unto the LORD
      for all his benefits toward me?
13I will take the cup of salvation,
      and call upon the name of the LORD.
14I will pay my vows unto the LORD
      now in the presence of all his people.

15Precious in the sight of the LORD
      is the death of his saints.
16O LORD, truly I am thy servant;
      I am thy servant, and the son of thine handmaid:
      thou hast loosed my bonds.

17I will offer to thee the sacrifice of thanksgiving,
      and will call upon the name of the LORD.
18I will pay my vows unto the LORD
      now in the presence of all his people.
19In the courts of the LORD's house,
     in the midst of thee, O Jerusalem.

Praise ye the LORD.

Indeed, I love the Lord because he has heard my voice and my cries for help.  In so many ways psalm 116 truly reflects the emotions I have with God.  Let me share a few of them with you.

He listens to these cries (and works in my life) so I will call on him forever - (verses 1 and 2).  Addiction is a horrible place (verse 3) - and thankfully I have not seen the same place I was in when I started this journey.  So I am owe God my life I am his servant (verse 16).  I know that I can always rely on the name of the Lord and when I am in need I will call on his name. (verse 17)  Here I am paying my vows unto the Lord...in the presence of his people (verse 18).

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